#30. Thure Emanuel’s Roots: A Swedish Record from Grava



What Is a Församlingsbok? 📖

What Is ArkivDigital? 💻📚

From Ture to Thure: Piecing Together the Evidence 🔍

Americanization 🇺🇸

Understanding The Record



Who’s In The Record? 👤

Where Are We? ⛪


  1. “The Americanization of Swedish Names,” Swedish Roots (www.swedishroots.com). ↩︎
  2. “Ture,” Nordic Names Wiki (https://www.nordicnames.de/wiki/Ture). ↩︎

#31. Hazel Quinn: A Tribute

As I wrap up my January research block focusing on Hazel Quinn, and put the finishing touches on her biography, I am reflecting on not only all I’ve learned about her, but what I’ve learned from her….


Without further ado, please click here to read Hazel’s biography.



Photograph of Hazel Quinn Krupa and her great-granddaughter, Victoria, taken in Whitman, Massachusetts, about 1993; digital image provided by my mother-in-law [name withheld for privacy], shown here with permission of photographer and living subject.

#31. A Glimpse into Hazel’s Life: 1926–1932

1926–1927: Living at Home, Establishing Independence

1928: Hazel Joins the Randolph Grange Fair

1930 Census: A Young Working Woman


Citation: 1930 U.S. census, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, Randolph Town, enumeration district (ED) 120, sheet 21-B, dwelling 321, family 349, Marshall G. Quinn household; imaged database, “United States, Census, 1930,” FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33S7-9R4G-S8K).


1932: Hazel Takes a Trip to the Bahamas!



What These Records Tell Us


  1. Randolph, Holbrook and Avon Directory, 1926-1927 (Boston: R. L. Polk & Co., 1926), 97, Hazel E. Quinn; imaged database, “U.S., City Directories,” MyHeritage (https://www.myheritage.com), image 53 of 131. ↩︎
  2. “Committees Names For Randolph Grange Fair,” The Boston Globe (Massachusetts), 13 August 1928, p. 4. ↩︎
  3. For Hazel’s marriage certificate: Norfolk County, Massachusetts, marriage certificate no. 164 (1933), Bergquist-Quinn, Norfolk County Town Clerk’s Office. For Muriel’s marriage: “Miss Muriel Ellinor Quinn married Chester E. Gonier in Quincy,” The Quincy Evening News (Massachusetts), 30 September 1935. ↩︎
  4. “Beware the Colds of March. Take a Munson Cruise to Tropic Sunshine,” Atlantic City Press (New Jersey), 29 February 1932, p. 4; and “54 hours to Nassau,” Chicago Daily Tribune, 09 March 1932, p. 20; see https://www.bls.gov/data/inflation_calculator.htm for inflation calculation. ↩︎
  5. “6 Incoming Liners Delayed by Thick Fog Over Harbor,” Brooklyn Daily Eagle (New York), 17 March 1932, M2-19. ↩︎

#31. Hazel Quinn in the 1920 Census


Citation: 1920 U.S. census, Franklin County, Maine, Jay (town), enumeration district (ED) 53, sheet 12-A, dwelling 241, family 253, “Matthew” Quinn household; imaged database, “United States, Census, 1920,” FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33S7-9R6G-6KH).


A Family in Recovery

Reliability of Informants

Hazel’s Battle with Scarlet Fever

A Record of Survival

What This Record Tells Us

#31. Hazel Quinn in the 1910 Census


Citation: 1910 U.S. census, Plymouth County, Massachusetts, Brockton Ward 1, enumeration district (ED) 1180, sheet 8-B, dwelling 131, family 170, Handly [sic] Sabean household; imaged database, “United States, Census, 1910,” FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33S7-9RVP-QKB).


The Sabean Household at 63 Wheeler Avenue

The Working Men of the Household

The Women Who Ran the Home

Marshall Quinn’s Massachusetts Mystery Continues

Life at 63 Wheeler: A Glimpse Into the Past

#31. The Birth of Hazel Elizabeth Quinn



A Gas Fitter and a Canadian Bride

Brockton: More Than Just Shoes

A Curious Case of Geography: Where Was Marshall Really Born?

A Delayed Paper Trail

What This Record Tells Us

Theory: When and Where was Marshall Quinn Born?



Birth Year: 1871

Specific Birth Date: 21 April

Birthplace: Tatamagouche, Nova Scotia

Further Research

Conclusion


  1. “Nova Scotia Births, Marriages, and Deaths,” database with images, Nova Scotia Archives (https://archives.novascotia.ca/vital-statistics/). Civil birth registration lasted from 1864 to 1877, and was not mandatory again until 1908. Compliance was inconsistent during this period, leading to gaps in the extant records. ↩︎
  2. “Nova Scotia school papers, 1789-ca. 1959,” database with images, FamilySearch.org (https://www.familysearch.org/search/catalog/1022101). This include an image by image search of the film entitled “Colchester County school papers, v. 7-8, file folders 15-32, 1832-1849; v. 9, file folders 1-19, 1850-1959.” ↩︎
  3. See “Church Records at Nova Scotia Archives,” resource at the Nova Scotia Archives website (https://archives.novascotia.ca/churches/research/?Search=&Start=76). ↩︎

#31. Hazel Quinn: Her Parents, Part 3


In Part 2, we followed Marshall and Pearl Quinn as they left the industrial bustle of Massachusetts for the promise of a quieter life on a farm in Canton Point, Maine. This bold move brought moments of joy, including the birth of their eighth child, Eloise, but it also tested their resilience in unimaginable ways. From a devastating house fire that destroyed their home and belongings, to the tragic loss of their newborn son and a series of illnesses that swept through the family, the Quinns endured profound hardship. Yet, amid these trials, Pearl’s creativity and determination shone through—whether sewing garments to support the family or earning a rare legal victory over unpaid work. By 1921, however, the weight of these challenges prompted the family to leave rural Maine behind and return to Massachusetts, where they sought to rebuild their lives once more.1











  1. Lather, Christopher M., “#31. Hazel Quinn: Her Parents, Part 2,” CML Genealogy Blog (https://cmlgenealogy.com/2025/01/03/31-hazel-quinn-parents-2/ : posted 03 January 2025). ↩︎
  2. 1920-1921 Androscoggin County, Maine Directory (Auburn, Maine: Merrill & Webber Co., 1921); “Androscoggin County (Maine) directories,” imaged database, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/search/film/009180085); entry for “Quinn, M.G., removed to Mass.” ↩︎
  3. Want adds page, The Boston Transcript, 20 Jun 1921, p. 15. ↩︎
  4. For the birth record see, Norfolk Co., Massachusetts, 1921 birth return no. 60, Quinn [male child], 03 Jul. For death see, Norfolk Co., Massachusetts, 1921 death certificate no. 42, Quinn [male child], 03 Jul. Family lore dictated to the author by Brenda (Bergquist) Pickett in 2013 indicated that the child was called David. For Marshall’s father David Patriquin’s death date, see “Nova Scotia Death Registrations, 1864-1877; 1908-1973,” imaged database, Nova Scotia Archives (https://archives.novascotia.ca/vital-statistics/ItemView/?ImageFile=98-711&Event=death&ID=178903), death certificate for David Patriquin, registered no. 711, 31 January 1920, New Glasgow, Pictou Co. ↩︎
  5. R. L. Polk & Co., Randolph, Holbrook and Avon Directory, 1926-1927 (Boston: R. L. Polk & Co., 1926), p. 97, entries for Hazel E. Quinn, r. rear 547 N Main, and G. Marshall Quinn, foreman, Brockton Gas Light Co., h. rear 547 N Main; imaged in “U.S., City Directories,” database with images, MyHeritage.com (https://www.myheritage.com/research/record-10705-17210106/g-marshall-quinn-in-us-city-directories), image 53. ↩︎
  6. For the birth record see, Norfolk Co., Massachusetts, 1922 birth return no. 51, Roy Quinn, 03 August. For death see, Norfolk Co., Massachusetts, 1922 death certificate no. 47, Roy Quinn, 04 August. ↩︎
  7. This female infant generated several records. See, “Brockton, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States records,” images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QHK-4QXJ-RV1J), image 254 of 711; Plymouth County, Brockton, birth certificate, registered no. 1021, child of Marshall G. Quinn, 27 August 1926. “Massachusetts, United States records,” images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QHN-2QTF-HWZ9-W), image 109 of 514; Plymouth County, Brockton, death certificate, registered no. 600, child of Marshall G. Quinn, 30 August 1926. Note that a duplicate of this certificate was also filed at Randolph where the Quinns resided (see, https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QHK-3QTR-W9F8-S), and the same record was indexed in Randolph (see, https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-C3WW-6NTF). For more on Hemorrhagic Disease see, Kher, P., and R. P. Verma, “Hemorrhagic Disease of Newborn,” updated 26 June 2023, in StatPearls [Internet Journal] (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK558994/). ↩︎
  8. “Committees Named For Randolph Grange Fair,” The Boston Globe (Mass.), 13 August 1928, p. 4; OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-12013-998560080). “Randolph Grange Has 10th Annual Fair,” The Boston Globe, 20 September 1928, p. 15; OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-10969-1096300945). “Many Awards Given at Randolph Grange Fair,” The Boston Globe, 21 September 1929, p. 4; Newspapers.com (https://www.newspapers.com/image/431094486/). ↩︎
  9. For newspapers referenced see, “How and Whence Safe Vanished: A Puzzle, But Chief Solves It,” The Boston Globe (Boston, Suffolk, Massachusetts), 27 November 1928, p. 15; OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-12013-644875335). As well as, “Truck Stolen From Randolph Garage,” The Boston Globe, 11 June 1923, p. 20; Newspapers.com (https://www.newspapers.com/image/430297331/). For Marshall’s occupation see, 1929 Brockton Directory (Boston: W. A. Greenough Co., 1929), 97 and 321, entries for Marshall Quinn. ↩︎
  10. There was a building on the corner of North Main Street and Maiden Lane, owned by Mrs. Erasmo Camelio, which was burned in a fire October 1, 1931, see “Randolph Fire Believed of Incendiary Origin,” The Boston Globe, 1 October 1931, page 3. The building consisted of two stores, and two tenements, which were vacant at the time. The Quinn household may have been proximal to this building. I speculate that the home address may have been on North Main and not Maiden Lane. ↩︎
  11. 1930 U.S. census, Norfolk Co., Mass., population schedule, Randolph, ED 11-120, sheet 21B, dwell./fam. 321/349, Marshall G. Quinn household, lines 85-93, enumerated 14 April 1930; digital image, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/6224/images/4607673_00583); citing National Archives and Records Administration microfilm publication T626, roll 2340672. ↩︎
  12. “Dorchester and Randolph Girls of 14 are Missing.” The Boston Globe (Massachusetts), 11 September 1931, p. 4; digital image, Newspapers.com (https://www.newspapers.com/image/431266512). ↩︎
  13. “Pomona Granges Assemble Here,” The Mansfield News (Mansfield, Bristol, Massachusetts), 20 April 1934, p. 3; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-12013-40077623); “Past Presidents Of Krow Eldeen Feted,” The Quincy Evening News (Quincy, Massachusetts), 24 October 1934, p. 8; Mrs. F. Pearl Quinn of Brockton, soprano, sang two selections; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-12013-1086755441). ↩︎
  14. “Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States records,” images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSMB-1QWR-M), image 1092 of 1178; Naturalization Petitions Granted; also “Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States records,” images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSMB-1S27-H), image 111 of 1679; Declaration of Intention; and “Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States records,” images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSM1-99BW-G), image 2031 of 3490; naturalization index entry for Marshall George Quinn. ↩︎
  15. “Quinn Sawtelle Wedding Announced.” The Lewiston Daily Sun (Lewiston, Androscoggin, Maine), 18 August 1932, p. 2; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?record_id=record-12013-243171602). ↩︎
  16. City of Quincy, Massachusetts, certificate of marriage, registered no. 164, intention no. 150, Office of the Secretary, Division of Vital Statistics, Hazel Elizabeth Quinn and Thure Emanuel Bergquist, 19 May 1933, Randolph, Massachusetts; received 20 December 2024 from the Quincy City Clerk’s Office; for the families relationship with Rev. Philbrook see, “Committees Named…,” Boston Globe (Massachusetts), 13 August 1928, p. 4. ↩︎
  17. “New Hampshire, U.S., Marriage and Divorce Records, 1659-1947,” database with images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/5241/images/41267_309277-00796) > Marriage > 1901–1937 > Langevin, T – Lapointe, A > images 797–798 of 3426, marriage of Phyllis P. Quinn and Eldon R. C. Lindberg, in Salem, Rockingham County, New Hampshire, 14 March 1934; citing “New Hampshire, Marriage and Divorce Records, 1659–1947,” New England Historical Genealogical Society and New Hampshire Bureau of Vital Records, Concord. ↩︎
  18. “Massachusetts, U.S., Marriage Index, 1901-1955 and 1966-1970,” database with images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/2966/images/41263_2421406273_0194-00478) image 479; entry for Muriel Ellinor Quinn, Brockton, 1935, vol. 22, p. 289; Ibid., (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/2966/images/41263_2421406273_0206-00084) image 85; entry for Melba Pearl Quinn, Somerville, 1936, vol. 71, p. 94; Ibid., (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/2966/images/41263_2421406273_0206-00084) image 81; entry for Arnold Boice Quinn, Brockton, 1937, vol. 23, p. 378. ↩︎
  19. “Brockton Wife, 20, Abducted,” The Boston Globe (Massachusetts), 17 August 1936, p. 15; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?lang=en&record_id=record-10704-4253304); “Thinks Wife Abducted,” Boston Daily Record (Massachusetts), 17 August 1936, p. 10; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?lang=en&record_id=record-10704-1542026); “Two Brockton Persons Are Reported Missing,” The Boston Globe (Massachusetts), 18 August 1936, p. 7; digital image, OldNews.com (https://www.oldnews.com/en/record?lang=en&record_id=record-10704-4253204). ↩︎
  20. Her life is thoroughly documented after this incident. ↩︎
  21. 1940 U.S. census, Plymouth County, Massachusetts, Brockton Ward 2, population schedule, enumeration district (ED) 12-28, sheet 4A, lines 23-27, Marshall Quinn household, house number 13 Park Street; digital image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/2442/images/m-t0627-01635-00750 : accessed 26 December 2024); citing National Archives and Records Administration microfilm publication T627, roll 1635; for inflation calculator see, Federal Reserve Bank of Minneapolis, “Inflation Calculator,” (Minneapolis, MN: https://www.minneapolisfed.org/about-us/monetary-policy/inflation-calculator), “$1664.00 in 1940 is worth $37353.17 in 2024.”; for proof of Bernard’s separation from Louise see, “New Hampshire, U.S., Marriage Records, 1700-1971,” database with images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/5241/images/41267_312143-02005), marriage of Louise Almira Quinn and William Anthony Joyce, 12 August 1940, Portsmouth, New Hampshire. ↩︎
  22. “U.S., Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, Swedish American Church Records, 1800-1947,” database with images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/61584/images/47830_554717-01047) > USA > Massachusetts > Brockton (Campello) > First Lutheran Church (Bethesda); record for Handley S. Sabean and Arlene Julia O. Lindberg, 28 November 1940. ↩︎
  23. The Commonwealth of Massachusetts, Department of Public Health, Registry of Vital Records and Statistics, death certificate no. 2480, Flora Quinn, 10 March 1943, Boston, Suffolk County; received 13 January 2025 from Registrar, via VitalChek; also “Massachusetts, U.S., Death Index, 1951–1955,” database with images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/3659/images/41263_2421406273_0086-00316) > 1941-1945 > Naan-Sheehy > digital image 317 of 590, entry for Flora (Sabean) Quinn, 1943, Boston, referencing vol. 10, p. 415, index vol. 104. ↩︎
  24. 1950 U.S. census, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, Stoughton, enumeration district 11-308, sheet 71, lines 28-30, and sheet 72, lines 15-16, Eldon R. Lindberg household; digital images, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/search/collections/62308/records/156776391); U.S. Department of Commerce, Bureau of the Census, Population Schedules for the 1950 Census (Washington, DC: National Archives, 1950), NAID 43290879. Note: these are “out of order” sheets, per the enumerator. ↩︎
  25. Stoughton, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, death certificate no. 93, Marshall George Quinn, died 3 November 1951; filed 5 November 1951; Town Clerk’s Office, Stoughton. Certified copy received by Christopher M. Lather, 23 December 2024. ↩︎
  26. Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/150039430/flora_pearl-quinn: accessed January 10, 2025), memorial page for Flora Pearl Sabean Quinn (1887–1943), Find a Grave Memorial ID 150039430, citing Melrose Cemetery, Brockton, Plymouth County, Massachusetts, USA; Maintained by LogicalGMW (contributor 47846471). ↩︎

#31. Introducing Hazel Quinn: A Complex and Multidimensional Life

My wife Victoria’s earliest memories of her great-grandmother, Hazel Quinn Krupa, are full of warmth. As a child, she’d sit beside Hazel at the nursing home, holding her soft, delicate hands. Hazel’s snow-white hair framed a calm, kind face. The nurses, amused, spoke of her sly habit of “borrowing” small items from other patients.1 Another great-granddaughter recalls Hazel offering her orange Tic Tacs—a small, cherished gesture.2 To her great-grandchildren, Hazel was a quiet, kind presence.


Photograph of Hazel Quinn Krupa and her great-granddaughter, Victoria, taken in Whitman, Massachusetts, about 1994; digital image provided by [mother-in-law's name withheld for privacy], with permission of photographer and living subject.

Photograph of Hazel Quinn Krupa and her great-granddaughter, Victoria, taken in Whitman, Massachusetts, about 1993; digital image provided by my mother-in-law [name withheld for privacy], shown here with permission of photographer and living subject.


These memories paint a serene picture, but Hazel’s life was far from simple. Born on 19 May 1909, in Brockton, Massachusetts, she was the daughter of Canadian immigrants, Marshall Quinn and Flora Pearl Sabean.3 Hazel’s 91 years included two marriages, two daughters—Brenda and Elaine—and a life of fierce independence and complex family dynamics.4

Victoria’s recollections differ from her mother’s, offering a contrasting perspective. My mother-in-law remembers Hazel as stern, her once-red hair turning white after a workplace accident. Hazel’s sharp wit once deterred her and her twin sister from swimming in a hotel pool, warning them of alligators. Her memories mix humor and frustration, shaped by Hazel’s critical nature. For example, Hazel advised her to “listen to your husband” during a marital dispute—ironic, given Hazel’s two divorces.5

Hazel’s independence extended to her career. A granddaughter recalls her as head of housekeeping at a Nantucket hotel, managing staff with authority. The same granddaughter notes a sometimes complicated relationship between Hazel and her daughter Brenda, but it was Hazel who intervened when Brenda’s marriage became volatile, ensuring her safety and helping her rebuild her life.6

The death certificate of Hazel Q. Krupa offers only a skeleton of details: she passed away on 28 June 2000, in Abington, Massachusetts, from cardiac arrest, with diabetes and dementia contributing. At the time, she was listed as divorced and had worked as an executive housekeeper.7

But Hazel was so much more than these dry facts.

Hazel’s story is a reminder of the complexity of a human life. While her great-grandchildren experienced her as a figure of quiet kindness, earlier generations knew a woman of sharp contrasts: strict yet loving, independent yet flawed. Her role as a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother spanned moments of conflict and reconciliation, disappointment and deep connection.

Her burial at Fern Hill Cemetery in Hanson, Massachusetts, on 30 June 2000,8 a hot summer day,9 marked the close of a life full of transformation and resilience. Hazel’s legacy, preserved through both official records and family memories, challenges us to see our ancestors in their full humanity. She was not just the elderly woman Victoria knew, or solely the strict matron her granddaughters recall—she was all of these things and more.


Photograph of Hazel Quinn Krupa with her great-granddaughter, Victoria, taken at the Colony House Nursing Home, Abington, Massachusetts, about 1998; digital image provided by my mother-in-law [name withheld for privacy], shown here with permission of photographer and living subject.

Photograph of Hazel Quinn Krupa with her great-granddaughter, Victoria, taken at the Colony House Nursing Home, Abington, Massachusetts, about 1998; digital image provided by [mother-in-law's name withheld for privacy], with permission of photographer and living subject.

This is just an introduction to Hazel Quinn. It is the beginning of my exploration into her life, and the beginning of a broader project to uncover and share the lives of all sixteen of my children’s great-great-grandparents. Each ancestor left behind a legacy shaped by triumphs and struggles, and each story deserves to be told in full. I invite you to join me as we continue this journey, exploring individual records, family narratives, and the historical context that shaped their lives.


  1. Recollections of Hazel’s great-granddaughter, Victoria, Dec 2024. ↩︎
  2. Recollections of Hazel’s great-granddaughter, Dec 2024. ↩︎
  3. Massachusetts, Plymouth County, Abington, certificate of death, registered no. 72, Hazel Q. Krupa, 28 Jun 2000; certified long-form copy from Abington Town Clerk’s Office, obtained 04 Dec 2024. ↩︎
  4. For sources relating to these generalized statements, please see Hazel’s Research and Records page; Christopher M Lather, “#31. Hazel Quinn, Research and Records,” Christopher M. Lather Genealogy (https://cmlgenealogy.com). ↩︎
  5. Recollections of Hazel’s granddaughter (my mother-in-law), Dec 2024. Name withheld to protect privacy. ↩︎
  6. Recollections of Hazel’s granddaughter, Dec 2024. Name withheld to protect privacy. ↩︎
  7. Certificate of Death for Hazel Q. Krupa. ↩︎
  8. Ibid. ↩︎
  9. Recollections of Hazel’s great-granddaughter, Dec 2024. ↩︎

#23. Introducing Alice Charron: The Matriarch of a Childhood Home

Alice Charron’s life, like so many of our ancestors’, is best understood in fragments—small but meaningful memories pieced together over the years. My earliest recollections of Alice, though hazy, are vivid in their own way. I was only three when she passed away, but the time I spent in her home, 783 Park Ave in Albany, New York, is etched into my memory. We lived in a multi-generational household where my parents, brothers, and I lived downstairs, and Alice resided upstairs. A constant presence in my young life, I recall her being kind but also witnessing the decline of her health, her frailty growing more pronounced, and at times, her temper becoming a sharper.1


Photograph of Alice Charron Danko and her great-grandson, Christopher, taken in Albany, New York, about 1989; image photographed by Mary Danko Wynn, owned by the author.


My eldest brother, who was closer to Alice than I was, has vivid memories of her too. For him, Alice was the maker of the best yellow Jiffy cakes with chocolate frosting, and her kitchen was a place of warmth and comfort. He remembers how she would use an old meat grinder that hooked onto the table to grind ham for her ham salad.2

Her home was always filled with comfort, and weekly Sunday dinners gave me a strong sense of family and belonging. We all remember the candy jar on her hutch, always stocked; and how she would cut apples for us, covering them with loads of sugar—small acts that filled our world with sweetness. A lot of our memories of Alice revolve around food! This seems to have been a way she displayed her love.3

A particularly funny story my brother recalls happened is when a bat somehow found its way into Alice’s house. She called our father, her grandson-in-law, and described it as a “bee” flying around the television. When he went upstairs to investigate, he discovered the truth—it was a bat! It was just one of those humorous, unforgettable moments.4

Shortly before her death, Alice dyed her hair red to look like Ariel from The Little Mermaid, my favorite movie at the time. She did this for me, her great-grandson, to share in the magic of my beloved Disney princess. But when the red wouldn’t come out of her hair, Alice was mortified. I remember her throwing my Ariel doll down the back stairs during a moment of confusion. I couldn’t understand it then, but I didn’t let it change the way I viewed her. She was still the honored family matriarch, my grandmother’s mother, a woman whose love and memory would remain with me.5

Alice was a complicated figure—firm, often critical, yet loving in her own way. I have heard stories of how, after Alice’s husband Jack died unexpectedly, she became estranged from some of her in-laws in the Danko family, holding onto that grudge for years. Family letters reveal Alice made a promise at her husbands casket to financially take care of his aged mother, and later went back on that promise. Why drove her to make such personal decisions? I can only speculate. I had also heard of the times Alice chastised her daughter for her divorce in the early ’70s, but later supported my own mother when she went through her own.6

These contradictions make Alice’s life all the more interesting and worthy of exploration.

Alice’s death certificate provides a factual account of her final years. She passed away on September 25, 1992, at the age of 87 in St. Peter’s Hospice in Albany, New York, from adenocarcinoma of the endometrium. Her history, as reported to vital statistics by her daughter Mrs. Mary C. Wynn, states that Alice was born on 01 Oct, 1904, in Cohoes, New York, and was the daughter of Paul Charron and Zenaide Patenaude. She was buried the following day at Our Lady of Angels Cemetery in Colonie, New York.7 The details of her death, though important, only tell part of her story.

Alice’s life was much more than these facts—it was a life of love and loss, of complex relationships and moments of joy.

I feel like I know Alice’s story because my first three years were spent in her household at 783 Park Ave in Albany, New York. I grew up around, and was so close to, the people who knew her best—her daughters, my grandma Mary and aunt Helen, and her grandchildren who knew her and loved her. Their stories, memories, and experiences with Alice were woven into the fabric of my childhood, shaping my understanding of who she was. And who I was.

But now I acknowledge that there is always more to discover, more layers to uncover about the woman who lived a life full of complexities, joys, and struggles.

While my memories of her are brief, they are no less significant. This post marks the beginning of my deeper exploration into Alice’s life and the stories that make her who she was. I invite you to join me as I continue to uncover the nuances of Alice’s story, and to reflect on the lives of all sixteen of my children’s great-great-grandparents, each of whom has left a unique and lasting mark on our family history.


Photograph of Alice Charron Danko and her great-grandson, Christopher, taken in Albany, New York, about 1990; image photographed by Mary Danko Wynn, owned by the author.


  1. The authors personal recollections of Alice Charron Danko. ↩︎
  2. Recollections of Alice’s great-grandson, Dec 2024. ↩︎
  3. Authors recollections. ↩︎
  4. Recollections of Alice’s great-grandson. ↩︎
  5. Authors recollections. ↩︎
  6. Wynn, Mary Danko. Interviews with the author, various dates, notes and recordings in the possession of the author. Also, family letters inherited from Mary Danko Wynn, Alice’s daughter, by the author. ↩︎
  7. New York State Department of Health, Bureau of Vital Records, certificate of death, recorded district 101, register no. 1898, Alice C. Danko, died 25 September 1992; issued to daughter Mary Danko Wynn, then passed through her to the author, 2023. ↩︎

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